I whipped them out in front of the Apple store. Yup. That’s right. I bared my breasts in the middle of the mall. And I liked it. And so did the elderly woman sitting next to me. She actually applauded me.
This was the second time I’d whipped them out in public and BIP’d (insert obnoxious use of mommy blog-o-nym…means breastfeeding in public). My little love bug got hungry while we were at Whole Foods having a delicious lunch with some visiting friends and my husband. But does BIP really count at Whole Foods? I’m not sure it does. Just like it doesn’t really count when I’m at my mommy group or my breastfeeding group. Granted, I was in the MOST high traffic area – the tables at the end of the check-out line, closest to the exit, where EVERYONE leaving the store had to walk by. But, I just think the clientel at Whole Foods is far more accepting of things like breastfeeding – I mean, they’re spending about five times more for everything just to make sure it’s organic! What is more organic than breastfeeding? So, anyways, that experience definitely gave me the gusto to whip them out at the Mall…
I share this, though, not to recount my weekend activities. But, I’ve come to find out that breastfeeding in public is a really controversial topic. Before having a child I would have never thought twice about this! Being the feminist I am, I’m really fascinated (ok, pissed off) with people’s thoughts as to why women should cover up or go home to breastfeed their babies. But let’s be honest, I’m really just hell-bent on doing it to prove that I can. Yup. If you tell me I shouldn’t do something just because I’m a woman, I’m going to make darn sure I do it just to show you I can. But really, folks, weren’t you hanging off your mother’s boob at some point, too? A little hypocritical, no? I mean, a kid’s gotta eat when a kid’s gotta eat.
It’s not my problem that you can’t walk by and realize there’s nothing more natural than a baby breastfeeding…that breasts aren’t a sexual organ…that there’s nothing unsanitary about FEEDING my child at the mall (umm, there’s a whole food court full of kids eating – do you walk by and give them the evil eye?). It’s not my problem that you’ve been programmed to think of women, and women’s breasts, in a hyper-sexualized way. Or maybe it is my problem. Maybe that’s why I’m determined to BIP. So that we can begin to normalize breastfeeding. I mean, if I didn’t BIP, I’d be at home ALL day – that’s how much my little milk-monster eats!
But before I start sounding all self-righteous, I’ll be honest – I’VE been socialized to feel uncomfortable with breastfeeding…and as much as, ideologically, I believe in our right to BIP, it’s been a bit nerve-wracking and it probably will be for a while. But that doesn’t mean that I won’t do it…I’m determined to BIP whenever my little love bug wants to eat!
So, what do you mamas think? Bare it anywhere or barely acceptable?
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